Deadline for your disillusionment 

You can feel sorry for yourself. You just can’t do it forever.

You can mope and groan and be miserable. You can’t do it forever.

You can be unfocused and ornery, but you’ll need to eventually get over it.

You can be cranky and moody, but we won’t deal with it forever.

You can be disillusioned for a while. Distraught because you weren’t treated the right away. Angry because it’s not fair.

But you should manage that, deal with it, process it and then get your head back in the game. Punch a pillow. Run 6 miles. Sing like a mother fucker alone in the car. Get it out.

And then get back to being yourself.

Take the time. Set a deadline for that time to end. And then end it.